When is she ready?

Ok my girlfriend says she’ll have sex w/ me

then when we start talking about a time and place(because I’m only 15 an I don’t feel like getting caught @ my house)

The she chickens out and says well we’ve only been dating for 4 months and I got to 5 month rule you know…

so I’m like oh yea thats cool you know no biggy…

then it comes up again and she’s like I’ll do it! but when?

then I’m like how bout 2morrow when I come over?

then she’s like ya ok!

then I go over and nothing!

but I respect her I even said I’d wear protection

then all over again! lol

I love this girl and this is the first girl I ever felt like this about…

so I don’t know if anyone has any advice plzzz help lol!

Answer #1

stop pushing her you are going to have to wait till she is ready she is saying yes because she likes you and doesnt wont to lose you but changes her mind becasue she is not ready too so give her sometime dont ask her a’l’l the time let her be the one to bring it up next time

Answer #2

I understand how you feel, im 15 also, you just have to wait for the time to be right. Is she ok with foreplay? such as fingers? -if its her first time, shes going to worry if your the right one for her, show her that she means a lot to you. If she feels that you are, it should be easy

Answer #3

aww!!! I’m going to cry! this is so sweet I was in the same situation 5 months ago… and sadly I did the same thing wed talk about it but when it came down to it I was FREAKED OUT! just dont push her… every girl must decide this by herself even when it drives her crazy! just be there for her, talk about it with her, let her sit in your lap while you talk or keep your arms wrapped around her… she needs to know that no matter what she decides you will still be there for her, just dont push thats the most important thing and if she chickens out again then just pull her close to you and kiss her on the forehead and say ‘its ok, I understand how hard this is for you, remember that I love you and I will always be here for you, whenever youre ready let me know, trust me I wont say no and I will be so gentle you will call me a teddy bear’ she also might be afraid of the pain because she hasnt done anything down there, you could discuss fingering or oral instead of jumping right to sex… comment me if you need help! remember please her first and then yourself! good luck and have SAFE fun…

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