When Is It A Good Time To Be Fingered ?

Honestly, he’s not worth your time. He’s playing guilty mind games which is an early sign of trying to control you. Too put it simple, you can guess what his intentions are for you. I think you came into this relationship with a different mindset than his. Either way, you’re not wanting to do this and he obviously wants to guilt you into doing it.

just make sure he uses 1 finger I first got fingered on my 13th birthday it was a gift from him lol and know that were used to it he moved on to three it feels really good the pain is sometimes the best

I have to agree with what loco said, if he is putting that much pressure in trying to force you to change your mind, you don’t need him. You should be ready to do what you want to do, but only when YOUR ready…not when he SAYS your ready.

honestly if he loves and respects you he wouldn’t try to change your mind after you told him you were’t ready, it doesn’t seem like he resoects yo at all, I think you shouldn’t let him do it for now and if he leaves you it means that’s all he wanted from you.

first of all your thirteen years old. just because it “FEELS GOOD” is no excuse for you to be doing it. seriously, your better off not doing it. I mean are you even sure your going to be wtih this boy for along time. I mean what if you guys break up a few months after and dont EVER do a blow job. seriously, every girl should be respected and if you do, do it. no need to return the favor. but your 13 this should not even matter to you!!! but good luck with whatever your choice is.

Guys who say “ if you loved me you would” are usually total idiots looking for one thing there own enjoyment He is using your emotions Tell him that you don’t want to be fingered then if he persists walk out of there after maybe swearing your head of about how he is a pushy arrogant stuck up jerk I’m sure you get the picture

omg you shud totally let him do it im 13 and boyfriend did it to me it was awesome he was so sensitive, you mite jut feel a bit nervous when he goes in your vagina but after a bit it feel better than ever but make ure your wet first!!! haveee funnn if you want let him nibble your nipples it feel goood x

umm letting a guy finger you doesnt make you a slut,(after all, its just a finger) but I understand if it makes you feel uncomfortable…but honestly if he’s using the “if you loved me you would do this” excuse w/you hes no good anyway…however, if you do let him do it, dont let it be just because he guilt tripped you or whatever, do it because you’re ready and you want to, because fingering can lead to more serious stuff sometimes…hope I helped sorry if I didn’t

okayy. heres the thing. im 16 and my boyfriend of almost a year fingered me for the first time a long time ago. it feels incredible. but if your not ready then you dont have to do it. and just bc you get fingered doesnt mean your a slut. its just an experience. I mean I’ve had sex and its the most amazing feeling but I dont consider myself a slut. so do what you feel is right. and it helps to repay him with a hand job or a blow job. good luck:)

ok I can realate to u! im 13 also! and just the other week my boyfriend said he wanted to finger me and all this stuff but I was like no because im not a slut! but he promised he wouldnt tell anyone and a couple days later I let him do it. and honestly it was the best feeling I have ever felt. I moaned! lol it felt incredibly good. if I were u, I would let him. but you have to return the favor somehow. by maybe giving him a hand job, or a blow job