When is having an affair an reoccuring thing?

I am 21 years old, and I have had 2 affairs with married men, one man actually left and divorced his wife for me. I thought he was the one, and we were so perfect for each other but not at this time so we ended it. I left him for someone I liked.. and I loved him. Now again I am finding my self with someone who is married and its going good. I have guys who I date and I want more then just a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. But I always find my self with someone who is attached. Its always the married ones.. that are the best for me. hence why they are married. I am in the ARMY and for the males in this profession being married isnt anything to stop them. I want this one ‘relationship’ to work.. But I just need some really good advise because I honestly do not think I will find someone who I can really have a very good conversation and I can laugh and love, to love for the rest of my life.. I just need help..

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Answer #1

I agree im sorry the above is right … you dont sound like a nice person if you do thats what some woman came and did to my family.. when I was little.. my dad had an affair and left us it ruined my life and my mums and my bros and I was only little and still is ruining my life im 13 now. its sick to think that a person can do that to a family and feel no way :( .. but dont worry it will come round and bite you on the bottom ! you will fall inlove and have your heart broken .. id love to know how you feel .. .. oh yhh and the above is also right because when my dad left wit tha over women .. they had kids..he did the same .. now just because the man u “love” is with you wats to stop him doing it again

Answer #2

You want us to help you destroy a family? That man is not yours, he made a commitment to another woman. If he can cheat on her (someone that he was supposed to love forever, someone that he was supposed to never hurt, someone that he promised to be with forever) then he will also cheat on you. Just because you think he’s the one and perfect for you doesn’t mean that 5 years from now he’ll think the same thing.

Grow up and go after someone that doesn’t belong to someone else.

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