When is good time to leave the women you love so much?

If you and your wife were go go back together, then the only proper way is for the two of you to communicate well, have respect for each other, and each of you hold the other as the ultimate most only person that you are emotionally attached to in that manner. If there is someone else along those lines in that mix, it will never work out successfully. I, personally, have the feeling when I read what you wrote that she does not seem to feel totally emotionally secure in a realtionship with you. I don’t feel that you need to be mean, or verbally abusive in the relationship… but I “do” feel that you should be more assertive in outlining how dedicated you two should be to each other in your relationship. Set up some guidelines and stick to them. If she agrees, then you stand a good chance of survival together. If not, most likely the relationship is over, so move on with your life and don’t punish yourself for the shortcomings of other people in your life. Have more respect for yourself and learn from the experience. Life is never over if a single relationship in your life does not work out. It may not be working out because for you, there just may be something much better in your future that you can’t see right now. Just sit down with her and be kind. Tell her how you truthfully feel and ask her how she feels. Common sense will tell you if it is going to work out successfully from there or not. If you really care about a person, there is no room for harsh words or disrespect. That is not part of a successful relationship. Only signs of failure. If she tells you one thing during the week, but totally changes on the weekend for no reason that is apparent to you… then she is just playing you. Move on.