Why is he like this?

So im dating this boy and I overheard him say hes only dating me to make me feel special, I got mad and he wrote me the sweetest poem, and was like im sorry then he turns around and says im dating someone else. My best friend says thats hes a lying sack of crap who is using me. But me being me takes him back, I’ve only been dating him for like a week and a half and he already asked me if I would marry him and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but then he turns around and says that, oh and the good part about this all is that when I told him he lied to me straight to my face. I was kinda expected it since I heard it but stillhes my boyfriend. Then in the mourning after “the fight” he gave me a two and a half page note saying that he loves me and that he wants me for life and stuff, I mean its better than just a sentence like usual but I just don’t know. Prom is in a couple of days and he asked me to it but then he started talkig about haveing sex and stuff that makes me wonder if hes using me. I know I want him really bad but I just don’t know everyone says he is but you know what if a guy paid attention to you like he has you would see. Im open for any feed back even if its negative I really just want to know. Wb please lol hearts tacee

Answer #1

Wow well that sounds just like a guy who I used to know and let me tell you it didnt not turn out good… just lots of tissues and a broken heart… well if a guy is doing these things constantly is obviously NOT ready for a serious realtionship like you are. Not muture enough at all. Not even to make up his mind. Espacailly not that prom is around the corner… Have you ever thought that his telling you all this stuff like he wants to get married with you and he loves you becuase he wants to get in your pants? Prom is around the corner and we all kow what a guys main objective is. TO GET LAID. and anyone who would really love you would not presure you into having sex, they would respect your decision. And if he trys to say that BS that sex is away to show your love ect DO NOT BELIVE THAT CRAP dont fall for writeing you little BS notes ANYONE CAN DO THAT. come on know guys like that arnt worth your time. Sorry to be so stright out but I’ve been through this already and im telling you what I wished someone had told me. Well this is only advice its up to you want you want to take and listen to. but whatever you do do I wish you the best of luck

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