When do I loose my virginity?

I was raised in a christian family but most of my friends have had sex, I feel left out but dont want to have sex before marriage, I feel ashamed about it and havnt even met the right guy yet.. How do I help get this feeling away because I feel ready, but I dont.. If that makes sense?

Answer #1

Listen darlin, I lost mine at twenty years of age and I’m twenty one, and it was a mistake. I went off to college where I lost my virginity :-(. I am a faithful believer in Jesus Christ and Satan attacked me to the very core of my heart to the point of where I questioned my salavtion. Do not have sex until you’re married. I beg all the youth in my church to wait and abstain from sex. That is the best thing to do. I never had the sex talk with either my mother or my father and that hurt and I just tried to resist it all on my own, but the temptation was to much for me to resist. You must say no and be forceful in you saying no. And if your fella leaves you, it’s because he never loved you for you. Don’t have sex, I promise, it is not woth it.

Answer #2

You don’t need to feel ashamed! It’s something special that you should share with someone you love, not just because. You will regret if you chose to lose it now. Wait for the right guy, one that is willing to wait for you.

Answer #3

Im christian ,I feel left out too but im just gna wait til I get married :) its hard yea but I think you should wait too :) its your decision

Answer #4

you shouldnt lose your virginity just because your friends did do it for the right reasons if you dont youll end up regreting not losing it to your husband if you do it now and maybe your friends that already lost it will regret it someday

Answer #5

You shouldn’t be feeling ashamed about your beliefs. Sex is a personal thing and there is nothing wrong with wanting to wait till you are married.

Also you’re still very young and it’ll probably still be quite a while before you’ve met the right guy who shares your view on this.

Don’t worry about feeling like you want to either, that is a normal response for almost every teenager…you know…hormones and all, just remember why you want to wait and stick to what you believe.

Answer #6

Don’t even worry about it yet if you haven’t even met the right guy yet. Don’t worry what your friends are doing. Wait until you meet the right guy, then decide. If he really is the right guy then you can both wait until marriage or you can make the descision to have sex. When I met my boyfriend he felt the same as you, but after a few months we fell in love and decided to have sex, in the future we would love to get married, but right now he decided its what he wanted. How old are you btw?

Answer #7

I think you should wait and be the one thats does what god want us 2 do. sometimes its good to be the odd ball beause at the end when yuor very sucessful and making good money with a clean body yuo will be happy yuo did it. thats my goal in life about me. sincerly shakyra viverette age, 13

Answer #8

I was raised christian and I still am… I am 19 and I chose to wait for sex till I got married… It has been amazing!!! we got married June 6th of this year… we dated for a year and he moved to my town last november… after that it was REALLY hard… I mean I was living in the dorms at college and he was living in an appartment… we had NO one around to make sure nothing happened… we had no one looking over our sholders telling us what we should/ shouldn’t do… It made it EXTREMLY hard not to do anything!!! yeah we got REALLY close LOTS of TIMES!!! but we still made it!!! and our wedding night was AMAZING!!! I can now say I am glad we waited, cause its sooo good and I’m sure I would have felt VERY guilty for going againist the beliefs I had instilled in me from birth…

so I sugest that you wait till you meet the right guy and get married, because then it will be even more amazing!!!

Hope this helps!!! xoxo, samdmck

Answer #9

we all feel ready and not…I have to say this..the whole saving for merry..is just stupid..alright..your going to do something..you might end up doing it..but doesnt make you bad..you can still be love by jesus and so on..trust me I know to many..christ people..who had sex..

so just take deep breath..and decide how you want to do things..and if you find love…just talk it over..and see if you want too..and if not..then just live life.

yeah..over all..finding the right guy..well good..for you..and if you find him and you dont get marry and do it..just make sure you talk it over and so on.

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