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I was with my boyfriend three years on and off and he split up with me a couple of weeks ago because he has too much on his mind.. I really love him more than anythink. We still see each ohter nearlly everyday and we still have sex I still sleep at his house and he stops at mine.. I know its silly but sometimes I just wish I got pregnant soo he would stay with me ,, wll and because I love kids to. We have never used anything since day one and I have had check ups and im all clear but I cannot get pregnant. He goes on his xbox 360 and videochats to people which includes showing himself, and when I confront him he says were not together anyway. I really love him and hes the only person I’ve ever slept with. I really love him and think sharing him is better than nothing.. Everyone says im really pretty and I know two boys who want to go out with me who are really sweet but why cant I get him out me head please help me im soo confused </3 x

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Answer #1

Getting pregnant isn’t going to make him stay with you. If anything, it could just make him resent you for pushing him into fatherhood when he apparently doesn’t want to be with you anymore. You should stop sleeping with him, you’re just letting him think that he can have sex with you whenever he wants and be with other girls. Not to sound mean, but it’s making yourself look desperate.

Answer #2

ok I’m just 15 but I had something like this happen 2 me look at him an ask him are you just staying with me so you can get laid because if you are stop playin with my mind I love you 2 death an I would do anything just 2 stay with you so please stop playin with my mind ‘m sick an tired of it I need 2 stop why I’m a head so please stop playing ether you love me or not if you dont tell me flat out I cant do this anymore tell him that if he say he dont walk away dont let him c you cry because then he will c he have you an he can use you ok if he does look at him an tell hom then go back out with me your going 2 have 2 stop this befoe un waste the rest of your life trust me I dil with this for 5 years an I finly just got done with it

Answer #3

Well to be honest if hes being like that and not comiting himself then he really isnt worth it;; im sure you are a very pretty girl and could have many other boys;; the reason you proberbly feel like you could ‘love no other’ is because he was your first love and you dont know how to love another, your used to the things he likes, the way he does things;; but sometimes a change is for the good;; give it a try… x

Answer #4

I wouldnt get pregnat, he may just hurt your heart and be like forget you. My ex is the same way he still talks to me and wants to hang out with me and stuff but he has a girlfriend and when I hear something he denys it I would just try to get over him and dont give him the cake and let him eat it to… thats what I was told it is hard to get over him but just try to talk to other people and just do anything to get him off your mind. Good luck

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