Whats up with girls?

I’m 15 years old. I’m probably the nicest guy you’ll ever meet. Im never rude to the girls I talk to, I always listen to there problems, always give them advice. I have to admit I could see myself in relationships to the 3 or so girls im pretty close to. The thing is, im a tad overweight and im not the prettiest person you’ll ever meet.

The girls I know however, talk to complete idots, fall in love with people who treat them so badly. They never seem/never will give me a chance in any romantic way whatsoever, and im sick of it. I’m a better person than the guys they talk to – but they are better looking and skinny.

Should I just give up any dreams of being with these girls? It seems as though I have no chance of ever ending up with any of them. And frankly im sick of it.

Answer #1

girls like complete as$ holes at that age

Answer #2

if you become one of their best friends, then it’s harder for them to think of you in a romantic way, especially if they’re used to coming to you with boyfriend problems.. and even if they did start to think of you like that, then they’re worried about what would happen if you guys did anything, what if you got in a fight and they lost one of their best friends, stuff like that.

Answer #3

As a girl, what I would think was that you are too much of a friend. Yeah, you are nice and sweet, but you listen to their problems and give them advice. These girls obviously don’t think of you as anything more as a friend. It has really nothing to do with looks. Some girls don’t mind what the guy looks like. I think the girls see you as a friend. If you want them, show them. You have as much of a chance as everyone else, but it’s up to you on how you take it. Put yourself out there!

Hope I helped. Kali

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