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Unhard when condom is on?

ok, my friend went to her boyfriends house one weekend. and they were planning on having sex, when they were playing around he got hard. but by the time he got the condom on and was bout to put it in. he got un hard. he wants to go to the doctor to see whats wrong. but she thinks it isnt that bad. so someone please help me so I can help her with him. thanks

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Answer #1

This is VERY common problem with young guys. There is NOTHING wrong with him - unless he is on medication or drugs; both of which can cause this.

Two things might have happened. 1.) When guys get REALLY excited they get anxious, which can kill a boner. 2.) During the pause to put on a condom, the break in mood can kill a boner. BUT, do not do the deed without protection, so either (this sounds weird but) he needs to practice putting on condoms while by himself - and masturbating - OR they need to get the condom ready before hand, then SHE gets involved with putting it on while touching and stroking him to keep him hard.

Good Luck!!

Answer #2

yea I think he just got “uninterested”.. youd be surprised at how quickly that can happen. even though he may still be all for it.. subconciously he just got bored..

Answer #3

well he can go to the doctor but this is common with men. she has to keep him intrested. a man getting hard is fully mental. he may not be excited enough or whatever else is going on. hope I helped and fun mail me for further advice ~kaitlyn~

Answer #4

he should go to the doctor b/c they have a better idea of what could be happening and how to fix it

Answer #5

viagra?

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