What you use to base your information about someone on?

You need to be straight-forward with him ask him… are you just saying we’re friends just to be saying it or what? You really need to just watch his ways around other people and you does he change or does he stay the same person? If he does try and help him maybe he needs help but doesnt’ know how.

If I never met someone before I don’t like to judge but if there are a lot of people saying things and having their reasons I wouldn’t really agree but I would go find out for myself if the things they are saying are true. It sounds to me like he needs a real friend and someone that doesn’t just tolerate him. I would talk to him he might have something that’s bothering him making him be like this. I would try to hang out with him a little bit and see how he is and if he wants to change or if something is bothering him.

If you confront him and he’s a bad guy, he will just look you in the eyes and say that he “really likes you” and that he “cares” and then you will really be hurt if he is lying. I say, give it time…be friends, don’t confide anything that you wouldn’t want others to know. It is great to give people chances but you should still protect yourself…that way, if he really has changed, you will develop a good friendship and if he hasn’t changed, you are still in the right, you gave him a chance while protecting yourself…