What will he think?

Doesnt that fact that he has been with quite a few girls tell you anything? It means he tells the girl EVERYTHING she wants to hear! A young boy that has had several sexual partners in my, is not good boyfriend material. It seems he isnt looking for a long term relationship. I believe losing your virginity to someone like him will make you have regrets later, especially when he is no longer with you. Trust me, sex does NOT make a guy stay with you.

Here is something I dug up called “10 reasons why I want to have sex with my boyfriend”> Heres #4 -It makes me feel loved and attractive. Unfortunately, what you feel is not necessarily real. Oh, a guy might say the right things to make you feel good about yourself. He may compliment you on what you are wearing (or not wearing!). And you might respond to those flattering words, especially if you don’t feel loved unconditionally by your dad. But, here’s the sad truth. Young men in general don’t have to love a girl - or even find her attractive to have sex with her. Want to feel truly special? Try joining a club or sports team. Volunteer, find a church youth group, write a letter-to-the-editor, work out, deepen a friendship, baby-sit, connect with your parents or become responsible for a pet. A woman is truly beautiful because of the character she develops. Any guy worth dating will affirm that in positive ways. He will appreciate things about his girlfriend other than the possibility she might be “available.”

^^not once did you mention him as “Your boyfriend”.^^ Trust me, you are only going to be another notch on his bedpost! Sex will NOT make him commit to you, or like you in the right way. Just ask all those other girls he “slept” with. NEVER, EVER get physical with any guy if you arent in a commited relationship with him!!!

..a lot of guys do actually like having sex with virgins. they like that they’re not going to be compared to anyone. you know guys and there egos.? lol.. but just make sure he knows you could say something like “ you know I’m a virgin right.? like aha don’t expect a lot right away “ in a joking tone or with a giggle or sumthing like “ you lead the way “ with a grin and a giggle. lol make a joke out of it but make sure he knows. ! Hope this helped. best of luck JustMe_xxd

dont rush into anything personally im not to keen on the whole sex before marriage scene.. but if you do make sure you do want to loose your virginity with him! guys should value that in a lady and respect them in their decision and how fast they want to go- and who knows maybe youll start off slow and then get really into it… and if not maybe you can even get him to enjoy doing it slow. I hope this at least somewhat helped!