What to say to the guy?

Ok, so I love one of my best male friends, and I told him about it. He wants to be friends, and I think that’s ok, but I’m crashing here. I can’t stop thinking about him (NEVER) and I see him every day (he sits 2 seats behind me 8 hours a day)… I want to tell him how I feel, but what exactly should I say?

Answer #1

all of ya’ll are too young to be saying “love” I hope your profile is wrong where it says your like 14… But girl it not love at all. its that puppy love stuff where it only a crush. Im basically 18…will be in a couple days anyhow. Im married to a terrific man. Love comes in weird ways. But urs I cant say is love darling. Take your time in finding love. Trust me it will find you sooner or later.

Answer #2

then tell him how you feel hun the only thing is what if he dont feel the same? how would that make you feel? but follow your heart and and hope things work out for you

Answer #3

I’m terrible at flirting, and I can’t stop thinking about him for over 15 months now, so I think I could call that love.. And I realize that our friendship will never be the same, but I want him to at least know how I feel.

Answer #4

are you sure its LOVE and not just a crush if he wants to be friends im sorry hun but you cant force him to like you. just keep complimenting him and being nice im sure he will see you for who you are hope this helps jo x

Answer #5

just say I like your frendship but I like you also a bit more &that I hope this not diff.. &I dont want to break our frendship but I really lie you

Answer #6

Why dont you flirt wit him a lil bit and maybe he will come around and start dating u. but if he really doesnt want to go out wit u, you should take the hint before you get really hurt. But remember that once you guys go out, your friendship will never be the same once you break up. SO if you like your friendship as it is now, I would advize you not to go out. Hope that this helps. -Julia

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