What to do with a psycho Mom?

Dear aln77,

Trust me you will have your hole life to have girl friends. I am seventeen years old about to turn eightteen years..I could have a boy friend I just choose not to. There is a lot more to life then the datting the oposite sex, and what not…and then there is more to courtship that you leanr as you get older people change and we maturee a lot durring our adolesant years.

Your Mother Honestly sounds awsome…Nothing like my parents any way. amblessed is right not everyone has a good healthy family environment like you. You should be very thankful that she cares so much it bugs you.

As far as religion goes..well that is a tough call…I come froma home where we where not allowed to believe in ANY thing at all, and I am now a firm believer in God and the bible ( Christian in other words) I personally think that at any age you should have the right to choose what you believe in and that on any level you should research and seek some thing it is better to have faith in some thing then nothing at all trust me on that.

I am not going to preach the gospel to you..but I would encourage you to sit down and talk to your Mother about these types of things…if you want to start having relationships with people one thing you will learn really fast hopefully is that COMMUNICATION is the key..the better and more communication that there is then the better it will be over all. with any type of relation ship Parent kid ones…Boy friend girl friend. Husband wife..brother sister..teacher student/ Any type it does not amtter at all it is always better when there is good and open communication between every one.

I just got into trouble last night with my FOSTER parents I stayed out till 12 a.m. and they didnt know where I was..there was a huge lack of communication on my part I left the phone in the truck and then lost track of time…they freaked out though and I may have even lost my placement for one mistake I made ( and I am a good Girl too ) You mother is not going to kick you out for talking to her or not talking to her I am sure but over all things tend to run a bit smoother with the communication and what not.

Also the trick to Parents is this the more that you talk to them and let them nno what is going on then the more they will trust you.

It works well but do not abuse it…all I would have had to do last night was call them and tell them I was still out swimmig and we where going to watch a movie and that I would be home after it was done and I would have been fine…

Just talk to her.

Good Luck.

Well,people have different thinking.So your mum thinking is you are too young to have girlfriend.Yeah.your mum is right.^^Why you want to have a girlfriend now?

thats not bad really if you think about it its only a class all you need to do is pass you dont need to do good it goes toward your education thats just parents for you and trust me thats nothing to call your mom psyco about yea you should b old enough for a girlfriend if you really want but like the other person said their are so many other thing to be thinking about if if you and a girl fall for each other then just tell your mom thats the way it is