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what to do with one of my friends? her mom and I found out that she smokes and she has been sneaking out of the house a lot and I thought about beating the crap out of her but that wouldnt do anything because she has already had that done to her so if you have any ideas of how me or her mom and stop her or at least straighten her out and get back the way she used to be tell me and I’ll try them and I’ll try anything just because she is like a sister to me and I would like her back the way she was before she started hanging out with a lot of people she used to never hangout with

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Answer #1

honestly I KNOW how it feels like to sneak out and do things im NOT suppose to do. she is REALLY lacking something. a mother or father figure. I didnt see my mom for eight plus years because my dad had full custody of me and I really felt out of touch with myself until I finally saw my mom after eight years and she is dying with cancer. but I honestly think you and her mom should sit her down. spend time with her and figure out what shes really feeling. because it goes deeper than sneaking out and smoking. I know when I went out I started having sex with guys when I was in MIDDLE school thank god I didnt become pregnant then. and still now. but I can say that I have changed and hopefully my advice helps you if you need anymore help message me :D

jenifer.

Answer #2

I know how you feel. I have a best friend that did that same thang and you know what I sat her down and talked to her and told her that I would do anything for you and I told her htat I wouldnt be her friend anymore if she was going to keep this up and we were just like sisters… I would like talk to her and tell her how much she means to you and her mom and tell her that its only going to get worse and tell her that she is the only person that control her actions but she must know its only going to get her intrubbel I have been down that road before … it could all lead to family trust isues and stuff and you might want to help her stop it…before it gets out of hand I hop this is helpful message me at anytime for more help -kristina-

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