What to do when having intercourse for the first time?

He has done it once before? Believe me,that does NOT mean he is more experienced. That just means he may have done it one time. This is a very difficult situation .Because women are far more emotionally wired than men. Men tend to be a lot more driven when it comes to sex. Especially when they are just discovering their sexuality. And I hate to say this ,but a lot of young guys will ,in fact tell whatever they think you might want to hear in order to have sex with you. So beware of the silver tongued devil. I really don’t think they all necessarily do that on purpose. But chemistry takes over. And the guys do not have the equivillent to P.M.S. They just are kind of wild and on the prowl whether they know it or not. Always,always,ALWAYS use protection. If he says that condoms are too uncomfortable ,then flat out say NO! Birth control pills would be wise . Or some form of birth control. Also,he absolutly needs to be gentle . For the ladies, this first time might be a bit uncomfortable. At the first sign of the guy getting overly aggressive, make sure he knows ,(by you telling him ),that it hurts. If he is not sensative to your request, he will not be allowed to continue. Because ,even if he has done this one whole time before, he is not an expert. This is supposed to be a very special experience for both of you. Remember your first kiss? No comparison! This is life altering stuff here. Make sure you both talk A LOT, about what this means to both of you. Do not rush into this because of what your friends are saying. And if for any reason it does not seem like you are ready for this huge step into adulthood, by all means,do not do it.