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What to do next, I don't want to hurt her feelings?

So here it is. I was out shoppin wit a few friends, and we went to have lunch, I went to a diff place to get my food, and the girl who servd me was pretty, she kept looking at me, and I didnt know y..after I gave her the money to pay she didnt even charge me 4 anythin…instead she askd 4 my number, so I gave it 2 her(yes I know stupid but wateva). She calld me 1 week ago so we could have lunch. At the lunch we were talkin everythin went gd, then she told me she was bi, and that we should meet up again. And all that I said was ohk cool, because thats the first thing that popd in my mynd…n when she droppd me home she went in for a kiss on the lips but I pulld out before any contact but I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to take it any further than friends because im not ready to even experience wit the same sex, and im not sure on how to tell her in a nice way that wont hurt her…cant anyone giv me advice??

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Answer #1

Just be straight forward with her and think about it

Answer #2

I think the best thing to do is be straight with her, tell her that you enjoyed her company, and you think she’s cool and everything, but you don’t want anything more than friendship. If you tell her that your not yet ready to have a same sex experience then she should hopefully understand.

It’s best to tell her, by saying positive things about her, she might be disappointed, but it shouldn’t hurt her feelings too much.

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