What to do my 7 year old son is trying sexual behavior?

I have a 4 year old duagther and a 7 year old son. She just told me my son tired to kiss her down there.what do I do?me and my husband don’t do anything sexual around them.how does he know about this kind of stuff?I’m scared he is going to be sexual active before he is ready to be.

Answer #1

Every one else is really right.

all I can say is talk to him (don’t get mad) Just talk to him and tell him whats right and whats not okay for kids to do. And that’s a thing that he will learn about when hes older and knows what that means. And I think you need to talk to him and see where he learned this because you don’t want someone to have hurt him and he doesn’t get help…because I know some people that where hurt that a way and didn’t get help and they now have probs now and there 40 and it happened when they where 14. I also know someone who was hurt and got help and is now still has probs with it but not as bad as they would if they hadn’t got help.

Answer #2

Ask him where he saw that behaviour before. Make sure not to get mad at him, since he doesn’t understand he is doing something wrong. But now might be a good time to explain to him a little bit about girls and boys, what is appropriate and what is not. Little kids are naturally curious about sex and their bodies, and it is better to explain things to him now. Make sure you make it clear which parts of his body he should never let anyone touch and which parts of others’ bodies he should never touch. Good luck and I hope I helped!

Answer #3

Agreed. Investigate where he learned the behavior. But explain to him why little boys shouldn’t be doing that do the whole “not until your married” speech about how things are special for wife and husband. (Ya he will learn later that teenage sex is rampant but it keeps him at bay until he is old enough to understand the consiquences of it )

Answer #4

ok look kids are beomeing more sexually active these days and its because of other students at school and tv you shouldnt worrie too much because kids at that age dont and what there doing and it is kind of normal ok so just have a talk with him but dont be super hard on him ok

Answer #5

You don’t want to nake hin think its ok adress the issue as soon as possible. This could lead to bigger problems when he is a little older

Answer #6

DO all the other advice they have.

But first warn him not to ever do that again.

Explain to him that it’s bad.

Answer #7

I agree with ty…sex may be used as marketing all over the place. However, a 7 year old doesn’t simply “pick up” on oral sex…At 7, he should still be in the “I’ll show you mine, if you show me yours” stage.

This incident calls for some investigation to find out where, what, and who might have planted this seed into your youngster…

grannie phrannie

Answer #8

I hate to say this, but some times behavior like that is an indication of sexual abuse. You may want to check it out. There has to be a source for this. He’s not old enough to really comprehend what he’s doing. It’s not actually sexual in the same way for him. However, it is completely inappropriate and he should be educated about appropriate touch

http://parenting.kaboose.com/behavior/emotional-social-development/children-and-touching.html

Answer #9

unfortunanly kids pick it up a lot earlier than they used to mainly because sex is all over the tv, in adds and things completely unrelated to sex sex is used to sell prettty much everything its also in almost every new movie now and all over magazines other kids can also influence him if they have heard about sex you need to explain to your son that that kind of behaviour is unnaceptable especially with his sister tell im that its one of those things he will learn about when hes older and its also only appropriate to be getting sexually active when hes older and more mature tell him that what he tried to do to his sister was wrong and that he shouldnt do it again

Answer #10

I agree with vilela you should just tell him that he shouldn’t be doing this like that

Answer #11

Well I dont wanna say its normal … But when I was in kinder I tryd wit my cuzin its like a faze kids go thu they dont learn it 4rm parents its about there friends what they know.. Nothing on parents…

Besides maybe playing around curse just say thats your sis .. Dont do thsat till your much older & see what happens 4rm there

Answer #12

It’s a thing a lot of kids go through but that doesn’t make it acceptable. Make sure he knows it is not okay to do that with anyone at his age, especially not his sister.

More Like This
Advisor

Sex

Sex education, Intimacy, Relationship advice

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Muñecas Sexuales

Juguetes para adultos, Sex shop, Tienda de productos eróticos

Advisor

Eternity Tantric Massages

Erotic Massage, Sensual Massage, Tantric Massage

Advisor

usmaclinic.com

Sex Clinic, Ayurvedic Clinic, Medical Clinic

Advisor

Shape Angels

Beauty Enhancement, Sexual Wellness, Body Treatment