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How can I solve the fight with my bestfriends?

Help me please.: Okay. My BFFS (4 of them) always hang out with EACHOTHER and not me! I’m never invited! Right now they are all hanging out without me. Okay, so earlier this week we pla nned to have a HUGE party at MY house. With me and my 4 bffs and some guys,. We planned it to be SUPER fun/ But today I commented on my friends (my bestest bff ever) status and said I dont think im havign that party. she said whyyy I said because you guys never invite me anywhere and I don’t know why id do something for you when you cant do the same. she said okaaay idc if you have it anyways. Then we went on talking/fighting via text about how they never invite me anywhere. I asked why and she said its cause my parents are stict TTLY NOT TRUE! I told her thats not true then she said k well I gtg bye. ( I said wow im not good enuff 2 h/o with or text…nice) she said “im with my gma! I cant text its rude now by!” I said okay whatever im not good enuff 2 angout with you or texting or anything ( because shes at a party with my other friend…ten all 3 of my friends are spending the night at one of my friend’s house tonite WITHOUT inviting me. I know this because their statuss say “with blahblahblah doing thisthisthis” so I said w/e text me later. she said maybe. I said well if you care then text me if not then dont. she didnt reply. HELP ME PLEASE. I spend so much time crying because I do everything for them yet they hangout with out me ALLTHETIME the only time we hangout is when its at my house and I invited them. please help I cry so much I really cant figure this out this is why im turning to the internet. please help me get this striahghtened out before school. Dont say wow your pathetic 4 being friends ith them and stuff. because I KNOW THAT. but theyre the only good people in my school that arent gross so I have 2 stay friends witht them. also they go camping 3 times a year without me. PLEASE♥ :(:(:( :’(

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Answer #1

Hmm, ok, so here it goes..

  1. if you seriously want to get noticed then you have to do something to change it. I mean seriously she (aka your bff) flat out told you that the reason they dont hang out with you is because your parents are so called “Too Strict!” FYI that just sounds like a bunch of BS…a way to justify what & why they are treating you this way!

well, if that is the case, maybe there is a reason for it. Maybe it’s because they(aka your parents) know what it is like to grow up and are trying to prevent you from getting hurt or making a mistake you may regret for the rest of your life… Try to explain to them(your so called bffs) that sometimes other things come up, just like her visit with her grandmother!!! Its not because your parents are that strict, it’s just because they are looking out for you & if your friends parents were just as worried about their kids they would do the same for them.

  1. On the other hand if they(aka your parents) arent as strict as that girl said your parents were, call her out on it…next time they make plans make sure your there…just to prove a point.

Remember, it’s up to you whom your friends are…but there is an old saying & it is def worth thinking about… “It’s better to be alone then in bad company…” (I vouch for that!) good luck !

Answer #2

I know how your feeling.my friends use to do that to me . I would just lay low if they speak to you speak the way you always do but if not and they go on without you then you have your answer. I know its not easy but things sometimes sorts thenselves out.

I Really hope this helps All the best Damn The Torpedoes xxx

Answer #3

Don’t let them see that this is affecting you. Pretend as though you are too busy to even notice what they are doing. Wait about a month for all of this to cool down, and have a little party with them and some other people. See how it goes, but don’t follow them around the whole night, be cool, talk to the other people more than you talk to them. They will get jealous and want to hang out with you more.

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