What to do? crush or friend??

OK so last night I was texting my good friend josh and suddenly he asked if we could be more than friends. but I’ve been thinking about asking out this guy, jess. that I’ve been liking for a long while, like 4 years(!). and OMG!! I really don’t know what to do! if I say no then it’ll be really awkward around him and I really like him as a friend and kinda as more than that.but if I say yes, I’d have to give up on jess! please help!!

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ok think of it like this.. what happen if this jess guy you really like turns you down then all that waiting for nothing… and if you say yes to the other guy I suppose you were good frends to start with, then things might be a lot easier as a relationship.. you might have better chances with your good friend unless you want to take the risk and end up being single.. I suppose this of course isnt an easy answer but take ym advice or do the opposite either way what ever makes you happy..

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