What to do bout my mom?

Ugh I have so many things going on withh me. Im very small im 4 11 and im 96 pounds. I have a size d breast so I always have back problems. Im stressed out from school and trying to find a job.when I get home I lay down and I end up falling to sleep from everything I do.. When my mom come home she bytch at me bout not cooking.. Im honesly to tired to do anything. Im 16 now so im legal to just get my shyt and leave but the grass not always greener on the other side so what do I do before I lose my mind like really I can’t take this anymore??help before I do something I regret

Answer #1

Having a never ending backache would certainly zap any extra energy you have…not to mention being in persistant pain can cause depression, and make small things seem overwhelming…The first thing I’d tell my mom, is that my back hurts from my boobs (this is not a unique thing)…there very well maybe a bra out there to can help relieve the ache between your shoulders (gawd I do feel for you, on this).

Once out of pain you can re-assess how you feel about the not so big things…your outlook might be completely different.

granny phrannie

Answer #2

Parents can be that way me and my mama never really liked each other up until I had her first grandchild you just have to find that entergy to get up and do what you have to do. Tired and all. My mama always tells me I had to cook clean and go to work when I was pregnant to you so why cant you do the same. You really have to realize she just doesnt want you to grow up being lazy and a female that just sits around the house and do nothing. Just start doing something extra at times even if you dont feel like it

Answer #3

Glad that I could help. Can you add me as a friend so I can fun mail you back?

Answer #4

Talk to her and tell her how your feeling!…thats all you have to do. And Maybe try to help her some because shes got it hard too!. And no you can’t pack up and leave I mean you could be that would hurt her so much!…but you can’t move out on your own till your 18 hun.

Answer #5

I try to sit her down and talk to her but its like she don’t care whats wronng with me…im sick of it and I just wanna get away

Answer #6

Yeah,I think you should just sit her down and have a mother to daughter talk.Get her to see where your coming from without both of you going at it…She was your age once so im sure she will understand.just try to keep the peace.

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Answer #7

you dont have to keep up with this any longer, you know you say youre sixteen you can cook, so help yur mum a little shes stressed probably from work. then ignore her bychiness, youre growing up, you can get a part time job and help yourself, you know.. appreciate your features most guys like that. when youre 18 you can get away and live your own life and you will see that shell care more about you, once you get away, and do your own thing. hope this helps. ps I don’t know about the breast thing maybe you can save up some money for breast reduction? I don’t know

Answer #8

Ok a good idea would be to sit your mom down and explain to her about all of it if she doesnt not listen well then find a way to get her to listen. If you need to cook dinner the night befor wrap it up and microwave it the next day. Try to look for jobs but stay calm look in the paper or something scheduals some times work. Dont just leavve because you dont have a joob or anythign as for the back problems I now what your saying so try to save money for a massage it helps a lot trust me. If you need anymore help just ask

Answer #9

I say do exactly as xosoccerchick125xo said.

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