Am I being used?

You think that if you have sex with him he will finally commit to you? Hes already said no to going out with you, so is there something that your just not getting? When a boy wants you sexually, but doesnt want to date you, it means he is using you!

Before you get involved, before you give your heart to a guy, before you become completely infatuated with a man, step back and ask yourself if you are a priority or an option in the guy’s life.

If you are just an option, take note! Realize that you are most likely one of many, someone available for fun, and the guy is not in the relationship for the long term.

Better to be honest and clear than find yourself with a broken heart down the road.

How to Tell if a guy is Using You How can a girl tell if a guyis just using her?

My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used.

There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship.

The two should not be confused. Does the guy show care and respect for you? Or are you a convenience?

Do your conversations center around life, ideas, interesting thoughts?

Do you have a great time together when there is no physical activity going on?

Do you feel cared for and cherished for being who you are? Or do you feel you are only valued for what you do for the guy?

Is the guy interested in your goals, your dreams, your hopes? Or is the relationship pretty much centered on his needs?

Do you feel in your heart that you are valued as a human being? Or do you feel your value comes from the guys expectations?

Many women hold the mistaken idea that if a man wants to have sex with them, the guy must love them or at least like them. Not so.

If you find yourself feeling desperate for a guy, notice what it is you are truly wanting in life, find it in yourself.