What to do

You are not the only one in that position. My sister has 4 kids also & her husband keeps gettin laid off too. Their kids’ ages are 5, 3, 1, & 7 mon. He just sits on the computer like that too. It is so annoyin. I have told her many times that you have to point blank talk to him and give him an afromandim, probably spelled wrong. Obviously he can’t be trusted with the kids, & not sayin he will hurt them but he won’t keep an eye on them. If he continues to do it & I know it’ll be hard but maybe it’ll wake him up & make him be a better father & husband, you could seperate & go somewhere for a little. I am not a big fan of divorce & I don’t wish it on anyone so dont think I am sayin leave him. My sister has actually done that not to long ago & it opened her husands eyes. Yes he still has HIS time to play his games but he does a lot more as a family and helps out a lot with the kids now. & to a ppoint it’ll prove to you, if you can really do, it if he truelly does want to be part of your family & if he does care bout you guys.