What to do.

There’s a lot of information that I could hardly begin to tell about her, however I’m too lazy to type it all out, so I’ll get to the point. [I’m 17 and she’s 18]

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 months on April 1st. We’ve gotten to know each other loads within the time. I’m sure I love her, and we’ve talked about what we want to do. We haven’t directly decided where we’d want to live together, but there’s a couple locations that were proposed. I’ve been thinking about finances lately and I’ve been looking into scholarships/colleges around where we plan to live. [I’m pretty smart and don’t have money] We’ve thought about getting married when I’m 21 or 22, having a year to ourselves and a kid after that year. I’ve been looking around at information that I would need in the future, generally baby information. But I still can’t rid myself of the thought, and upon seeing the financial info for a baby, It feels so far off. When we get married, only my side of the family could help with anything, for details that I’d rather not say. I’m getting my first job sometime this week, don’t know what I plan on doing as a career, but feel that she and I can get through times.

Does our ‘plan’ sound effective? It’s still years away, but it feels so close, any advice will be wonderful, Thanks.

Answer #1

take your time, unless you can provide for your family you mustnt just go and start one, or you will, I guarantee, regret it…

take it slow, so many plans for the future, for such a short time, step by step cause if you run you will trip…

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