What to ask a girl?

Hey dude, you gotta learn that people love to talk about themselves when they are around someone they are attracted too.

Ask her a question that requires more than a “yes/no” answer, and that is personal about her. She’d love the opportunity to talk about herself.

Remember to listen to her answers, show that you’re listening by nodding your head, smile or saying “yes, go on” every 10 to 60 seconds so that she knows that you’re interested in what she has to say…

The conversation will likely flow for hours… with the two of you exchanging views or feelings about all kinds of topic.

When the conversation does stop (silence is ok if you or she lets the conversation pause for up to 2 minutes), ask another question to extend the conversation, or tell her your viewpoint on the topic being discussed.

Try not to change topics too much, and let her know that you are listening by reflecting back to her what she says (not all the time, but often enough that she knows that you’re hanging on every word she says). You can reflect by saying something that briefly sums up what she just said, and then saying “is that right?” or adding “I think that {then give your thoughts on the topic}”.

When you have similar values (thought patterns, wants/desires/needs/feelings, or think the same things are funny/terrible/cool/rude), you will find conversations too be easy.

If she and you think opposite on most (10 to 20 or more) topics, then you’d best be thinking about finding someone else to flirt/talk/snuggle with.

If you find out what you’re into, and then find a girl that has similar desires you’ll do fine.

If you’re trying to impress a girl by talking about things you think she might be interested in… you should scope out the landscape by watching what she talks about with her friends, or what she likes to read/watch/listen to… then you need to “google” that topic on the Internet, or watch that TV show, or listen to that music, or read that type of book…. before you try to make the “move”.

Here are some sample ways to keep the conversation going (assuming her name is Susie)

e.g. 1,

Susie, where did you find that {name something that she wears near her face – e.g., dress/top/pair of earrings/lipstick/eye shadow}? It/They really bring out the color/fullness/sexiness of your eyes/hair/lips… I’d like to make sure if I buy you a birthday gift, holiday gift that I get it from the same place that you found that… { then let her talk }

e.g. 2,

I was watching TV the other night, and I was wondering what type of TV shows that you (susie) enjoy watching? { then let her talk }

e.g. 3,

I have this tune stuck in my head… (hum somthing of the beat for her, or tap out the beat of the song with your fingers )… Susie, do you ever get tunes stuck in your mind, and how do get it to go away… { then let her talk }

e.g. 4,

When I’m alone at night, I think about being alive 1000 years ago and how different life must have been…. Susie, if you could go back or forward in time, what time period would you pick, and what do you think you’d like to do when you’re there? { then let her talk }

Hey, this advice works for making friends of any sex or age… you start by talking and letting people know your feelings, or listen to them talking about themselves (or a topic they have passion about)…

Remember… always show that you’re listening by making body movements, sounds, or other ways to signal the talker… so that they know you’re enjoying their company, and that you’d love to hear more…

Heyy I’m a girl and I luv it when a guy goes out on a limb and asks me questions like… Is there anything you like about me? It’s always fun to play 20 questions too! You can ask her random questions, anything you like. There are also games where you take turns saying a word the describes the other.

Hope this helps :D

Well. I’ve run into problems like this with a lot of girls. MY best advice is be yourself. That might sound cheesy but its true. It is never to good to be nervous, but try to be funny. Not the corny way but be silly sometimes. And be random sometimes that helps me. Compliment on the little things like her earrings, how nice she looks in her dress or clothes. Notice her new haircut. If a girl likes you she will want to know about you so you should be doing some talking too. Other than that she’ll like the fact that you want to know about her, let her talk but try to even it out on both sides. At one point where it gets silent, tell her what you think about her at that moment. P E A C E!

:)) read literature and talk about that.

talk to her about stuff no other guy would dare talk about- dreams? favourite places? love? future aspirations? hobies? things no one else knows? make her interested in you and shes open up and tell you everything about her and youll always have something to talk about :)

Dude, Ilovepainsluts… Those are some of the most awekward things to do with a girl!! All I have to say is be yourself. It is easy to get distracted by a girl’s beauty, but really try to focus on what she is saying and try to formulate your opinion about what she is saying. Usually when you pay attention to what she is saying and what thoughts come to your mind when she says things, it isn’t hard at all to keep a conversation going for hours. If all fails and there’s just nothing else you can talk about, play a simple game… google some simple mind games or games that can be played on the go… That will guarantee that she has fun with you. Girls like guys that are fun!

Talk about the movies and music… And you may find some taste in common….. and you could find more topic,.