When should you have sex for the first time?

Well you don’t have sex just because you wanna do it or everyone else is. I am 18 an I have a younger sister that’s 13. I told her the same thing. Sex is one of those things you will remember for the rest of your life. Make sure you are ready when you choose to do so and you are with someone that you truely love not just because he wants to get in your pants or tell his friends he fucked this girl. My first time was when I was 15 there I was in a relationship for a year and I really loved the guy and he loved me. He told me he would never do anything I didn’t want him to and I knew he was the one. I know asking parents sucks and sometimes people like that are older tell you oh don’t do that till your 20!!! When like they did it at that age too. They just don’t want you to make a bad decisions. But when you do choose to have sex main rules of mine with my sister 1. Has to be with someone you actually love 2. Have to be safe 3. Font just do it cause everyone else is and 4. If your over 15 and you followed those rules then you decide when your ready. Hope this helps :)

its all about emotion, you cant judge by age, since we all dont know each other here I just found it a bit rude how once a girl confided in this by speaking personally to answer a question she was immediately judged by the information on her birth certificate. people are asking questions and giving advice. not inviting us to judge them.

Wow do not listen to forever_always… 13 year old kids have no business having sex at that age. Sex is a lot of responsibility. In no way is 20 years old to late to have sex that may be an age where you can start thinking about it. In junior high and high school girls always claim to be so in love but that will most likely NOT last.

well it all depends on how old you r. because 2day was actually my first time havin sex. im 13 and it just bdepends if your ready and your sure you wanna do this. and I would only do it if you love the guy you plan on doin it with. I would make sure you really so love him. dig deep down in your heart and in your mind and think do I love him? more impornantly, does he love me? if you believe he wont leave you if you do have sex. then I would do it. I did it 2day and I feel great. im 13 and I would say when your a teenager. because I think if your 20 its 2 late, but before 10, 2 early…

Well im guessing you are relatively young and I really hope you take my advice. Sex is a very intimate and personal choice. I would advise you to wait until you are much older (meaning out of highschool) and are with someone who you truly connect with. Sex has consequences and you need to be mentally, emotionally and physically ready to deal with them if need be. Good luck and just because everyone else may be doing it doesn’t mean you should. Hold on to your innocense and purity because that is very admirable. :)