What do I do since we had unprotected sex?

Hi, iam 15 years old and I had (unprotected) sex last night with my boyfriend (also 15). At the time we didnt care about protection (heat of the moment type thing) but I told him to stop once he was about to come. He stopped a few times, then once we were done, he said “umm.. iam 85 percent sure I didnt come.” Like.. OMG!? I CANT HAVE A KID! I CAN BARELY TAKE CARE OF MYSELF!! I dont know if iam pregnant.. and I dont have the money for a preg test. Iam thinking about telling my mom I have period problems, that way I get an apointment with my doctor and he can test me. BUT IF MY MOM FINDS OUT THAT I HAD SEX, SHE’LL KILL ME! HELP!! I NEED ADVICE!! Thanks (;

Answer #1

I have to agree, that is great advice! You are both 15 years old, what on earth were you thinking?! I mean seriously?! When we make careless judgments we usually have to deal with the scary consequences. If you want to act like an adult & have unprotected sex, then you will have no choice but to deal with the known facts!

  1. ST-D’s
  2. HIV And so many other transmitted diseases!!! Right now, you dealing with telling your mom should be a walk in the park in comparison…What if god forbid you found out you were not only pregnant, but also may have caught something…How would you deal with that? Remember, it just takes that 1 time and you can ruin your life forever!
    In my opinion, next time, when you are in the heat of passion, I strongly suggest either taking a cold shower or taking a walk to the nearest pharmacy if sex is a must have!

Good Luck!

Answer #2

Just be an young lady and deal with it. You made the choice to have sex at your age. Now your going to make the choice to tell your mom. Girl what were you thinking? Your too young to be sexual active. But then again who I am to tell you what to do. In this world your see girls your age having sexual intercourse without condoms. I think if you are pregnant then just live with it your responsible for your actions. And if your not I hope you learn a lesson to stop having sex untill you want and don’t care to have a baby.

Answer #3

You were adult enough to have sex now you need to be adult enough for what comes next.

I would first look for a phone number for a gynecologist or clinic in your area. Give them a call and tell them your situation. See what they can do and if they can keep it confidential from your mom.

That is your first step.

Chances are your mom would need to be in the loop. Currently the emergency contraceptive pill is prescription only for those who are under 17.

xox Sika

Answer #4

I think you should find someone to tell is there anyone close you can ask and they can help you get a morning after pill that works up to 3 days after unprotected sex and im sure this person will understand and help you or you should tell your mom I know it might be hard but she will be happy that you are honest and just think of how much pain it will cause in the future if you arent ready it can be fixed now and being worried is far worse then having to tell someone

Answer #5

Being pregnant verses telling your mom I think being pregnant out weighs the mom rage. Its better to get this over with sooner then later. They have morning after pills. If you tell you parents you can get accesses to one through your dotor verses sitting there worried and possibly pregnant. If you don’t want to raise a baby, juggle school and possibly not have a boy friend due to new parenthood fears. Get help now not later and be able to have sleep insted of warming bottles and rocking babies to sleep.

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