What should we talk about?

I feel that sometimes, in a relationship, words don’t seem to matter. Personally, the other persons company is all I really need to make my day. I’m not sure if that applies to you but I think if you put it into that perspective, things should work pretty well.

I seem to notice that you find his promiscuous side a bit attractive. Why not, if you run short on words, try to work on getting that side of him to show. You can be a little flirtatious with him as well. This can be very time consuming if you take your time with it. Another good thing to try is do something together, be it playing a game, video game, sport, cards, anything that you can think of. Make sure that you both enjoy the activity and it’s something safe.

If you guys aren’t close to each other and lets say your texting or talking on the phone. You can always try to drag out the conversation. A key tip on being a good conversationalist is dragging out chats. if he mentions something he did today, ask him about it, keep the questions relevant and fluent. Make sure to shy away from convo killer such as ‘’I’m good, how about you’’ or ‘’Yeah that’s pretty cool’’. The key thing when chatting is to be descriptive.

If you want a bit more help, you can try looking at this howto: http://www.funadvice.com/howto/how_to_have_a_good_relationship_with_your_partner

And you can also look at this: http://www.wikihow.com/Have-a-Great-Conversation

Good luck and take care.