WHat should I say?

OK, so I am kind of off and on dating this guy. He comes over to my house and spends the night, and we usually have sex. But he goes and hangs out with other girls all the time,and I no he is doing things with them too. He tells me he loves me, but does he really love me when he cant really give me his time? And only gives me his time when he spends the night? What should I say to him?

Answer #1

tell him to get on his bike ( good old proper english term there!). basically tell him you dont want him. sorry but he doesnt love you. if he loved you he’d love all them other girsl too wouldn’t he- and he doesnt as hes messing you all around love.

Answer #2

Girl, the only kind of relationship you have going with him is a friends with benefits, nothing more! He doesnt love you…hes only USING you! Red flag> so I am kind of off and on dating this guy. He comes over to my house and spends the night, and we usually have sex. But he goes and hangs out with other girls all the time>>If your having sex with someone your not in a commited relationship with, your heading down the wrong path! If you dont want to be used by guys, keep your legs closed. Sex wont make a guy fall for you OR commit to you>>Guys do NOT date girls who are easy. They like the chase!!

Answer #3

im sure you dont love him but if you really do I pitty you as all he’s going to do is break youre heart. and he will that for sure. he doesnt care about you love, he’s using you why do you want a guy like that weh thers plenty og guys out there that would love you and respect you for who you are not just becasue he can have his way with you. surely you have an ounce of self respect.

Answer #4

he obviously has no respect for you and is telling you what he thinks you want to here. If he was really into you, he wouldn’t need other girls. He’s definitely using you and you need to get out now. he doesn’t deserve you.

Answer #5

Well… I talk with other guys but I never actually go out with them. And I know that I should just forget him …but I can’t I am in love with him and I rather have some of him then lose all of him. … I know that is pathetic but I really can’t help the way I feel, it’s just really hard to let go

Answer #6

Tell him exactly what you just typed.. and the point should be quite clear.. good luck.. xx. superfresh.

Answer #7

I wouldn’t believe that he really loves you. If he did he sure wouldn’t be messing around with other girls, sounds like hes just using you for the sex and that is terrible. Do you ever go out with other guys?

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