What, should I ruin our friendship or not say anything?

right well theres this lad and hes actually my best friend ever I dont know why but I think lately I really like him but its really complicated because I cant tell him straight out because hes to much of a good friend and I couldnt ruin our friendship but I would really like to get with him but it gets more complicated ha ha I was with his best friend for about 3 months and he is only outta a long term relationship! should I tell him or should I just leave it and keep my mouth shut or should I do a bit of major flirting and if so how?

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Answer #1

it depends how long you liked him. if its been years that you liked him, even when your with someone, then I would say…why did you wait so long? I’m with this guy that I liked since the 6th grade(now in 8th). I had a crush on that guy for 3years. then he decides to tell me he liked me since the 3rd GRADE!! I was happy! but I waited too long and the outcome wouldve been the same if I didnt wait.

but if you have been crushing on your guy friend for a week or so, then I would say wait because this might be a realization of the fact that your guy friend is way better than all your ex-boyfriends put together. you probably need someone to talk to thats all. but if your sure about this I say go for it!!! LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST BECAUSE you NEVER know IF you COULD DIE TOMORROW!!!

Answer #2

Just tell him straight up that you do like and your just wondering if he likes you back. He might have a crush on you and may think the friendship is worth not risking by asking because he would feel akward or scared. The worst that can happen is for him to say no. But you will still be friends.

This is from expreince. I’ve had a crush on one of my best friends. She knows, we’ve talked about it more than once. We tried dateing for a bit but the timeing wasnt right.

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