What should I do with my parents?

Omg, I love this guy, we just started dating on monday, and my parents dont wan us together. But we do it anyway bc we love eachother sooo much! (but they dont know yet) today we went to a baby shower and we saw eachother and we just kept smiling at eachother, but when the music started playing, he asked me to dance! I totally wanted to saw yes but my parents were there so, we couldnt! I told him tat, but I know I hurt him deep inside bc we cant be together! I dont want to hurt him anymore, but I also dont want my parents mad at me for dancing with a guy I love!! Im only 13, and he’s 15 what should I do? I already promised im I wood hug him, but I havnt, also I promised I wood kiss him, but I havent!!! Ugh, I cant stand hiding my feelings anymore!! Help me pls! Xxx

Answer #1

umm 13 and 15 badd idea. Ok so you may think that your in love, but believe me all dudes are the same the older the worse. He is just think SCORE!!! a young hottie who I can do things to cause she is young and innocent and dosent know any better. Maybe you guys should just be frineds then you will frin out what he is really like

Answer #2

You are very young and /very/ immature. You do not “love” him, and it’s not as special as you think. This is definitely not worth going behind your parents for. And he’s disgusting for being with you when he’s 15 and you’re only 13.

Answer #3

You’re parents probably don’t want you with him right now because you are only 13. Y’all just be friends for a while until you are a few years older and then date and whatever. Just remember, you have to LIVE with your parents…you don’t want to do anything to make your life harder..which includes ticking your parents off with stuff like that. I’ve been there. I did the same thing. My mom made my life a living h* and it wasn’t really worth it at the time. Just wait a few years, it’ll make your life so very much easier…

Answer #4

YOU ARE REALLLY YOUNG.TO ME you REALLY DONT NO WHAT LOVE IS. YOU ARE BARLEY A TEENGER. BECAREFUL DONT PUT YOUR FEELINGS OUT THERE,BECAUSE HE IS OLDER THAN U. AND MAY HAVE OTHER INTENTIONS. II AGREE WIT YOUR PARENTS you ARE WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE THINKIN ABOUT BOYS AND I UNDERSTAND WHY THEY WOULD BE WORRIED.

Answer #5

thnx, aloot! you helped me understand allot of things! xxx

Answer #6

I had the same problem except when we started going out I was 13 and he was 16 we made it work for 2 years before my parents git to the point were they wouldn’t let me talk to him on the phone I say tell your parents you like him and if they refuse to let you guys be together hang out with mutual friends and/or go to youth groups and stuff together stuff were your parents wouldn’t expect you to be hanging out with him

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