What should I do with my parents ?

My parents keep nagging about every thing I do If I sit on the computer they nag about it If I go out with friends they keep calling and saying it’s late They don’t even like the way I dress How do I get them off my back ?

Answer #1

your parents are probally just worried for your safety. im sure you are probally a good kid and all, but now days its the adults us parents fear. if you spend a lot of time on the computer, your parents might fear of a “preditor” or you meeting someone who could harm u. if you go out with your friends a lot, they might fear that you could be hanging with the “wrong crowd” or may even worry that your sexually active. or drugs. & the way you dress…I dont know the style of how your dressing, but they may associate that with sex or drugs to. parents usually worry that their kids are either doing drugs or being sexual the most. and now days they worry about them meeting the wrong type of people on the computer I wish the best of luck, and hope this has helped you.

Answer #2

Parents usually act this way when they really love their kids, and want the best for them…They want their kids to stay away from drugs, sex, and bad behavior. Do your parents know the things that you are doing? how are you dressing? what are you doing on the computer that makes them not want you on it? do you sneak around? Have you been caught doing things you shouldn’t do? I remember a few years ago, I would always talk on aim with this guy from my school, who was always trying to pressure me into doing the wrong things… and conversations were very inappropriate. Every time my parents would walk in the room I would quickly x out of the conversation…my mom would be so nosey and always ask me “who was that you were talking to you? and why is your conversation so private that I can’t see it?” I hated the fact that I was so sneaky.. and I would always erase texts before my parents would take my phone away from me.
Because of my behavior, my mom and dad wouldn’t let me go hang out with certain people… I didn’t show them that I could be trusted, because I couldn’t be!

Now, I did a lot of changing, in the past few years and I’m not like that anymore! there are No more inappropriate conversations or sneaky actions from me. I don’t mind if my mom sees a conversation or texts.. I showed that I could be trusted and knew that those things were wrong. Also, I look at teens around me who’s parents don’t care… and their lives are a mess! they’re always out late, never get any school work finished, don’t know how to act, are always involved in sex and drugs.. and don’t know the important things in life.
As annoying as my parents can be… I know they do these things because they love and want the best for me! And when I get out of the house, I’ll be even more thankful.
Please listen to your parents…it’s a hard stage to go through, but you will see a difference! And you’ll look at those teens who’s parents don’t care and you’ll be thankful your parents do!

sorry that was long, but I hope it helped!

Answer #3

your probably right but if by sitting on the computer or going with I got nagged by them what whats left to do ?

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