WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH HER?? please help

me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year. we are cool one moment then she has her moments were she plays a victim and that im the “bad guy.” I sacrificed a lot for her! im basically living with her. I basically thru away my social life for her because her jealousy bothers me. I just about ditched my family. I even didnt complete my college semester for her.(I know..stupid but im going back.) I babysit her lil sis. I spoil her. and she STILLS acts so ungrateful. I dont want to break up with her but I brought this up to her and all she does is ACT sincere or cries because she “feels bad” but continues. and she isnt oh so supportive of my decisions sometimes. what should I do? im really close to her family and would feel bad. I dont know man.

Answer #1

nothing at all !!! if your guna moan about it simple don’t be with her !!! end of

Answer #2

take a some of it away and see how she does with that its not right that you love her and doo every thing for her and get nothing in return but her bin rude and if that dont work then I’d give up. you should be with your fam I bet they miss ya and stuff

Answer #3

yeah its hard to deal with a situation like that. I did that with my boyfriend, but not as extreme. personally, what I would do in your situation..I would start taking away the things she takes for granted. Like say you buy her a crap load of stuff, cut that out. soon enough she’ll relize that you’re whats important to her. and if she starts to pout about not getting what she wants, id say to sit her down and tell her you cant keep up with her demands, a relationship is a TWO way bond, and both individuals need to put EQUAL time and effort into it. and if by then she is still not happy. id say take a little break from her. im not saying break up with her, just see what its like to not be constantly grilling eachother everyday. it might be a nice reminder to her showing her what a valuable asset you are to her life. -good luck with your situation, hope all goes well.

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