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How to get my Mom to realize he's not the one?

so my moms boyfriend is a total d*ck. they have been together for about 3 1/2 years and I STiLL don’t like him.he so immature, rude &+ obnoxious. he “thinks” he’s funny when he’s not. both of my brothers don’t like him either. sometimes he can be really nice, butt you gutta put on an act so you don’t get on his bad side. && once you get thereee (which is easy) he flips out and yells, swears, kick things, etc. then after he leaves him and my mom text CONSTANTLY. he tells her that he loves her w. all his heart and other bs then the next day their back together. ohh and he blames every thing he does wrong on his “impluse disorder”.I tell her that she doesn’t deserve him and that I will NEVER like him. also I told her if shes with him when im 18, im moving out & probably not gunna talk to her again.they were gunna get married and he was gunna move in like three times… but that never happened. my mom && him went to a couples therapy and the therapist even told her that theres sumthing wrong w. him and no one could help him. what should I doo to get her to realize that he’s not the one?

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Answer #1

Just wait it out until you are 18…that’s about all you can do. Unless he REALLY fu*ks up, she’ll probably never leave him. But, go ahead with your promise to move out and never look back and she may realize what’s happened and take a good look at her life. Hope this helped, Good luck and be safe…

Answer #2

Riiight. So you get to decide what you want (such as not talking to her forever and posting embarrassing pictures on the net) but your mom has to do what YOU want.

I hope the next time someone tells you your boyfriend is a d!ck you’ll listen.

Answer #3

theres really nothing you can do to change her mind. it’s her life, and it’s her choice to be with this guy and you just have to respect her decisions.

would you like it if she wanted one of your boyfriends gone?

Answer #4

Record down the sound of him.I mean,when he is being rude.Let your mum hear it.Try to find as many evidence as you can that that guy is not suitable for your mum. Good Luck! ^^

Answer #5

My mom is in the exact same problem. They’ve been together for 3 almost 4 years and I hate him. My mom doesn’t even know why she puts up with all his bs. So she’s going to go to counseling to see why. She thinks it might be vudu. So maybe your mom should go to counseling.

Answer #6

It sounds like your being the mom.. to your mom lol

Answer #7

thanks guys. =)

Answer #8

If your mom is in love with this guy then you should step out of the way and let them be happy.

Answer #9

kick him in the balls then f*ck him up with ninja skills

Answer #10

Keep telling her why you don’t like him, and ask her whats more important? You and your brothers Well - Being or that thing she calls her boyfriend who lashes out because of his ‘impulse disorder’?

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