What Should I Do To Get Her Back?

Me and my ex had been dating for about 4 months and I began to wonder if she was what I wanted. I liked her a lot and really cared for her but didnt really realize hwat she meant to me. I began to kinda blow her off, and I actually cheated on her once. The last 2 weeks of our 8 month relationship I realized that I was in Love with this girl. It had probaly been to late by the time I told her I how felt. She ended up cheating on me with her ex that she dated for 3 years in high school and early college. I told her that I knew I had made tons of mistakes and that I was sorry and it would never happen again, I told her that we should give it another chance and that I loved her, she said she thought it was too late……we have been broken up for 1 month now and I still feel the same way about her……..she said that she still loved me and cared about me……..and said that she wants to be single right now……she has been hanging out with her ex boyfriend and she still talks to me too……I dont know what she is thinking, is she stuck between picking between 2 guys?……..And what should I do to get her back?

Answer #1

hey as a girl and knowing how this feels just meet her somewhere like starbuck if she likes coffie then meet her there and talk to her and tell her staight up how u feel and don forget the flowers!! and send her 1 rose each day and tell her she means so much to u!!! then finaly tell her one day and buy her a fake rose and say ill stop loving you when this rose dies!! she would love that!! kaci jo09

Answer #2

There is nothing you can do right now. Becos of all the game playing you put her thru you pushed her away and she is afraid to trust you with her heart again. She is obviously very confused and does want to be single right now to take some time out to work out things in her head, she isnt doing anything wrong by wanting time away from guys to work out some issues. Even tho she is talking to her ex doesnt mean she wants to be with him, maybe she just needs some comfort, or maybe she realised she does have feelings for him still and needs time apart from you to work out what she feels for him, becos its not fair to you to stay with you if she has feelings for someone else. Just give her time and support and she may come back.

Answer #3

Usually when someone says they just want to be single right now, it means until the one i want comes around! If she truly still loved you like she says she does, she would want to be with you! Shes just being nice. Shes NOT stuck between 2 guys. It doesnt matter that she still talks to you, her ex is getting to spend all his time with her. That should tell you something right there! You cant get her back unless she wants to. Doesnt sound like thats what she wants to do. I think you really need to move with your life as she is doing!!!

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