What should I do?? shsrt?

I am slowly loosing the will to live with boys and love, so I liked maybe even loved this one boy, then he goes and breaks my heart :’(. Then this other boy came along and seemed to mend it I suppose, we were getting really close, then he goes and gets a friggin girlfrend (leaving me, once again heart broken) so then I start flirting and getting really close to this other boy, who my best friend really likes, and the other day he asked me out, I had to say no for her sake, and I am afraid of getting hurt again. Long story short, I am lonely in the boy department but too scared to get close to anyone again.

Answer #1

Ladies listen! Guys our age are no mature enough to know what they want. dont get me wrong some of them are but other than that most are not. im 14 too and I’ve learned to live with the idea that maybe dating older guys maybe two years older is a better idea. I mean dating older guys has its issues too(going through them right now ughh) but they work themselves out. just keep your head high be confident and know that all those other guys who broke your hearts are definitely not worth your time. @ awesomealienmaster: if your best friend was really a good friend she would learn to accept the fact that uve found a guy who likes you and you like him too. saying no to him doesnt help her. because hes either gnnna use her as a rebound or just go like another girl. if he liked your friend he wouldnt have asked you out in the first place. but your a really good friend for backing off!

Answer #2

same thing life has ups and downs bt even when you find that rite person its going to be hard, its not so easy you just need to look for him dont give up and dont let your pass bring you down let it help you be stronger

Answer #3

thanks so much :) I just dont want to hurt her, I ALWAYS put my frends first no matter what and I don’t think that is ever gona change

A-J >.< x

Answer #4

im that same way! lif3 has ups and downs. no matter hwat you have to stay strong. and like me I’ve been that same way but ended up finding the guy I really love by looking hard enough and going through the ups and downs

Answer #5

thankyou. its nice to know I am not the only one tbh.

A_J >.< x

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