What should I do? Is sex the right answer?

im in the exact same postion as you. and I understand how hard it is for you to say no when you want him so bad but you dont wanna be used. I’ve held it out almost six monthss, but naa he is getting really impatient with me. to be honest I think I am just guna have sex with him because I dont want to loose him. but just remember, you probably need him more than he needs you. and dont be suprised if he doesnt stick around. but maybe he does like you, but is just reaaally horny, and that isnt a crime is it? but anyways, good luck, I hope everything goes okay for you.

this might be a traditional way of thinking but I still believe that you should only have sex with someone you trust and is committed to you. that guy only wants sex. Can you trust him? No. Is he committed to you? No. Does he love you? No. he just wants to get inside your pants and then most probably dump you or worse, continually use you. Why? because he thinks you’ll say yes. So I suggest think about it a lot.

If that were to happen to me, I’d tell him NO from the start when he was discussing sexual things with me. I might even lash out and slap him. :s

DO NOT do it. my friend was having this fling with a guy named angel, and they made out and he wanted to have sex and she really liked him too, but we fouind out he has a girlfriend, and all he wnated was sex, so dont do it !

Don’t do it. If he cares that much about you, he’ll wait. Having sex with him doesnt mean hes going to fall in love with you. Tell him how you feel about him.

dont do it…sex is ah kinda funny thing…it ah bond you cant explain doing it with him is jes to satisfy him. and dont feel guilty for saying no its your choice not his. he doesnt really like you if all he wants is sex. and all he tlks about is sex. he jes wants ah quick game at u.

I’ve known guys like that before. It’s all about the chase, and the reward at the end. Chances are good that he doesn’t really like you, just wants to get into your pants… and once he does, that’ll be it.

In my opinion, there’s nothing wrong with having sex for fun, but it’s far too easy to get caught up in the emotional side of things. Does he turn you on? Are you willing to have what’s likely to amount to a quick fling? If the thought of having sex with him doesn’t excite you, then of course you shouldn’t do it! Your decision should be based on what you want, not what he’s trying to convince you to do for himself.

dont do it why should you give him what he wants if he doesnt give you what you want (him).