What should I do if I hate giving bjs??

Im 19 years old… I hate giving head more then anything… My last couple of boyfriend’s I just decided not too completely… I don’t know what to do cause the guy im with now really wants me to give him head but first of all my mouth is really small and he is big… And im always self concious that im not doing it right.. I just hate it… Please please I need your advice

Answer #1

my boyfriend said to get over it and just do it… I think you should just tell him and have him talk you through it… if you really think you are doing it wrong ask him how he wants it communication isthe key

Answer #2

A guy should never tell a girl to give him head if he really cares about her…Don’t give him head just to test him…see how he would act if you wouldn’t give him head. Then you know what to do. A really man would never ask a girl to do that. I personally think you should really love a dude to go down on him.

Answer #3

Hi. I’m a guy.

A good erotic handjob is actually equally (or more) pleasurable to most guys as compared with a BJ. So, start with a handjob, mix in (only a bit) of oral action, and finish him off with a super-senuous hand action. He’ll love it.

You can vary where his fluid actually ends up (it need not be in your mouth). The amount of oral action need only be very brief and not “deep”. He will think, however, when it is all over that he has gotten a BJ! And as I say, he’ll love it.

So, the secret to giving a good BJ (without actually giving one) …is to masquerade it as a handjob.

Sooo, work on handjob technique …and keep it varied. (There are even web sites that will help you to become an expert in handjob eroticism, or lingam massage).

Variety is the spice of life.

Cheers.

Answer #4

I cant believe this ish lmao just say no you dont want to you decided for yourself dont let that dude having you doing things you dont want to do, and let me tell ya something if you feel hes forcing you get rid of him because its evident hes just wants to get sucked and doesnt care what you think, believe me ima dude and know what dudes are like find someone else love :)

Answer #5

I agree with Ciara17 …but instead of testing…

I think you should decide what you like and what you don’t.

Make sure you sit down and think why you like the and why you don’t.Even if it is a easy as saying “ I don’t like to perform oral sex because I just don’t”.Don’t do it for other people.DO it for yourself.If you don’t like it I suggest you find someone who can accept you like that.

Because like Ciara 117 said, “A guy should never tell a girl to give him head if he really cares about her”…in my own opinion that’s not a Real Man.

Okay your a strong girl okay.I know you can do it.

Answer #6

There is no such thing as a bad BJ!!!

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