How do I get him to care again?

Thanks for the answers…he doesnt want to be my friend anymore…so were not hes not talking to me ever again. and im not planning on trying to get him back. thanks guys.

It’s simple… you stop hurting him…

you are right , friends are supposed to care, but it isn’t him who isn’t caring, it’s you. Each cut you make is making him more sick with owrries that you one day will decide to commit suicide by cutting all the way through. Is that fair on him? Having a depression is not an excuse to cut yourself, cause it won’t help. It only makes things worse, look at the situation already, you’re loosing a friend because instead of seeking professinal help you’re damaging your skin.

I am sorry to go on so harsh about it, but I want you to understand what you’re doing to your friend and yourself… you are an important person, and he gets sad when you show destructive manners instead of a constructive manners. He don’t wanna lose you.

What if he started to show the signs you got… would you want him to feel like you feel? So depressed that he’d feel he needed to cut himself? Or would you want him to get some help so he can be a little brighter? If you’d say you’d want him to feel what you feel, then I got no more to say. If you want him to be brighter and stop cutting himself, then what’s keeping you from putting down the blade?

I might not know why you are depressed or understand why you feel you have to cut yourself and I will probably never understand… but I understand my own scars on my arm that reflects my old depressions… now there are only that amount of scars, but I still get help from professionals from time to time to maintain that there will be no more scars.