What should I do have sex or not?

I am 14 and I want to know if I should lose my virginity, or wait. This guy (16) wants to do it but im scared and he told me it wouldnt hurt but I think it will and if I tell him to stop he wont. What should I do just get it over with or wait till I have a “Special Somebody”

Answer #1

yyou should wait till your older

Answer #2

You don’t sound like you’re ready. If you’re not, then you should wait. :)

Answer #3

dont do it. wait for the special someone. PLEASE! it will be SO much better.

Answer #4

just do it. even if you find somone “special” its not like ther gona stay with you forever..

Answer #5

wait. sex is much more meaningful if its with the one you love.

Answer #6

Wait till you have a special somebody. Please. Its not worth regretting something that should be a special thing for you. Don’t do it with someone who won’t wait for you, either. ITs not worth it. Love, -D. x x x

Answer #7

You should definitely wait, sex for the first time is something you want to do with someone special, who loves you and who you love. You’re giving a piece of yourself away, you don’t want to give it to just anyone! Especially someone who wouldn’t stop if you told him to. Think of your virginity as something very precious and guard it against sleezy boys who want to steal it. Take care xx

Answer #8

You need to follow what your heart sais. Don’t do something that you are going to regret latter. Believe me, you need to wait if you don’t feel contorble, plese don’t do it if you are going to regret it latter on.

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #9

I had the same thing.. because I love my boyfriend and I wanted to loose my V to him , but I didnt no weather its a bad thing or not.. But tbf its your opinion of the matter .. and I went with what I thought not what anyone else said. I wouldnt class it as being bad at all :) If you dont think he is that special one then dont loose it to him, because that will be a big regret to look back on. hope everything works out :)

Answer #10

well see you should wait as much as you can even if you really want to because you might just regret it right after but if you don’t make sure hes clean and that you will have a long relationship with him. And about it hurting it depends how turned on you are it will burn as hes trying to put it in.

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