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What should I do about this situation?

what should I do, ok so thers this girl that I like and 1 of my good freinds likes her too, but I cant help it if she like me and not him, so last weekend we wer at a party, and the girl that I was givin me head in a bedroom and now wer goin out, and my good friend that likes her too, somehow found out about it and is really mad at me, but I dont understand how it is my fault in anyway, can you just give me some thaughts on this please?

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Answer #1

Dear mattysmith3, Never date a girl that you friend likes…This is a dating rule. You now will loose the girl and your best friend. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

You shouldnt let some girl come between friends. What you should have done when you found out that she liked you was taken that information and respected the fact your friend likes her too, and discussed it with him before anything happened, your friend prob would have appreciated that more and told you thats fine and to go for it, she likes you not him, fair enough. But becos you went ahead and did it anyway, your friend feels like you didnt even consider his feelings or care about them, so he has every right to be mad becos you knew he had feelings for her too.

Answer #3

before you went out with her, you should have talked it over with your friend first. you could have just said: hey listen I really like her and she really likes me, I’m thinking about asking her out, would you get angry?

just talk it out with him, and hopefully he will understand. and if he’s still going to be a pissy b!tch about it, then he wasn’t a very good friend in the first place.

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