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What should I do about this person?

I’m 16 and I’m a quiet person. I just started going to this school and 3 teachers have sat me next to the same boy because they think I’m patient enough to deal with him. We were cool up until Monday, no he’s being mean to me and kinda bullying me. I’m quiet and shy so when I tell him to stop he laughs and fills like he can just order me around. I don’t really have a “backbone” because I’m so shy, so whenever he bothers me, I just try really hard not to cry. I don’t know what to do anymore. It’s not fair that I have to go through this because I’m “patient”. This boy is powerful too, he turned the whole class against some girl and I feel like he’s going to do that to me. I can’t handle being in that situation, and if I was forced to be in that situation I would probably drop out of school. What should I do?

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Answer #1

If you ask your teacher to move you, Don’t let her move just you, Then that guy might like hate you. (Not trying to make you feel worse.) Ask him or her to move the whole class around, without him by you. Then try and over come your shyness, Tell him you’re your own boss he isn’t yours. And if he turns everyone against you, they weren’t your real friends anyway. You’ll find someone that will stand up for you soon enough.

Answer #2

First of all you need to address your shyness and lack of confidence. Speak to a counselor and go and do somethings to help you get out of your comfort zone to improve how you feel about yourself.

Then what you do, you make an appointment to go and speak to your teacher and ask him/her to move you because you are feeling intimidated.

Thirdly, you ignore this boy, he is trying to get a reaction from you,probably because he can see that you are scared of him.

Good luck!

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