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What should I do about my boyfriend?

Okay. I have been dating this guy. And things have been pretty well. He wanted me to promise that I wouldnt talk to any guys not even if they were gay, straight, whatever. So I did but I broke it twice. I felt bad like really really bad and he told me all id have to do was apologize to him sincerely. There are times when it feels like its ok but then he keeps badgering me about it. So I end up feeling worse. I talked to him yesterday and he ran up, kissed me and then things went a little farther. He told me he loves me but he doesnt know if he should keep me or let me go. I didnt even go to prom cause he got upset with me when he thought I was going. I told him it was okay to dump me since what I did cause I thought it would help but he hasnt let me go yet. Now I dont have anyone to talk to because I finally did give up my guy friends, some of my female friends, and he still isnt happy. He just keeps badgering me about it. He said he will love me forever but his faith and trust in me is broken. So how can he still love me if he doesnt trust me? And what am I to do?

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Answer #1

ohhh okay then 1st of all the most important thing in a relationship is TRUST okay my mother went to a conslour and told her soo after my mom and dad got divorced but anyways if he truly loves you he should make the effort to work on th trust issues he having and you should try and be more independent think about what hees doing to you entire life look at the whole picture you missed prom which is one thing a girl should never miss youll regret it later just remeber that if he loves youll he hads to make the effort and you have to show him the way by talking to him and telling him your feeling lonely with him isolating you form all of your friends

hope this helps:)

Answer #2

yea I know the feeling.. you should just leave him. once you find a guy who understands you and isn’t so damn selfish then you’ll truly be happy because this kinda of love you guys have is hurtful toward you. both of you should be happy. 50/50. if you don’t want to leave him, then I suggest you stand your ground with him and let him know what you want to do. get tough on him and yell at him for being stupid or do something. being controlled by him gives him power to do whatever the hell he wants and he probulby doesn’t even feel guilty for it. he never will unless you do something about it. don’t do what he tells you to do. stop feeling bad for talking to other people. just because it “hurts” him doesn’t mean it’s wrong. he should deal with it if he really liked you.

Answer #3

This is NOT a healthy relationship!

NO ONE has the right to tell you to “give up” other people. He’s clearly insecure or he wouldnt want you to stop talking to other “guys”…

If he loves you, he has a VERY strange way of showing it! Honestly, you do not need a person like this — You need to be able to be yourself regardless of who you’re with.

If you want to be with someone who takes away your rights to be social with other friends boy or girl, then the problem is yours — it’s NOT normal! If he will only be with you because you give up all your friends, then HE’S NOT NORMAL!

Frankly, this to me sounds like the beginnings of an abuser — what happens if you talk to a boy and he actually catches you!

You need to pick another guy that will let you be you, and also get to keep your friends.

Answer #4

omg he is so controlling you

please just dump him he isnt good enough for you he shouldnt be so controlling

Answer #5

Get out of it. He is manipulating u. If he truly loves you, then he would let you talk to your friends, ALL OF THEM. Tell him hes an a**hole for me. I hate guys like that. lol

Answer #6

GET OUT of this relationship NOW!! See his behavior for what it is: a red flag. It’s best not to ignore the warning.

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