What should I do about liking my boyfriends best friend?

Ok, well I have a boyfriend (nathan) and I kinda like his best friend (jon) and I have no idea what to do about it. Everyone just tells me to breakup with my boyfriend and go out with himm, but I don’t know. Jon knows I like him but nathan doesnt. Im just so confused

Answer #1

Looks like you have a decision to make. Pulling a stunt like that is a major blow to a guy’s self esteem/ego. You’d basically be leaving Nathan without a girlfriend or best friend, and you’ll earn a bad rep among friends and peers in the process. If all of that risk is worth dating Jon, than go for it! I hope the best for you guys! If what I just described doesn’t sound like a chance you are willing to take, than do not date Jon.

Does Jon like you?How important is his friendship with Nathan? Are you happy with Nathan? Do some thinking, becauset it’s unlikely you’ll leave this situation without hurting someone.

Answer #2

Who do you like more?Who treats you better? If you can see yourself being happier with jon then go with him,But if your just attracted to jon and love nathan stay with him.

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