How should I deal with my daughter's real dad?

As much as I hate to say this…her natural father does have the right to come back into her life…maybe something happend to him and he knows now that he F’d up and now wants to be a part of HIS daughters life…and yes the step dad had all the right in the world to be mad but at the same time he has no say so in this matter…at the end of the day he is not her real father…yes he cares for her aand for the last few years has been her father figure but still not her father…tell him to stop being selfish and think about the little girl whos always wanted to see her real father…its all about her not about the bad blood between 3 adults

This is a tough one. Reassure your guy and let him know that even though her real Dad is calling and trying to be in the picture after all thes years that He is still her Father. He is the one who has taken care of her and given her the love and time that she needed. So He will always be her real father in your eyes! I would watch your daughters biological Dad though. She may be excited to see him and he may act as if he wants to be there for her but he could easily do the same thing again. You don’t want her heartbroken when he walks away.

he has kind of a point. He has been fathering your daughter for all of her life and then all of a sudden her real dad from out of the blue rings her and sends her a present he’s bound to be upset.

Even though he’s gettin mad and he walked out on you and your daughter, your daughter has the right to speak to her biological dad.

Talk with your partner and explain how your daughter needs to see he biological dad aswell.

You can tell her the real thrut because the father is not the guy that stuck you the baby, is the one that is with you and your dauther now.

thanks for the advice.