Should I go back in there and look pathetic?

I think you should go back. NOT for him, but for the sandwiches. Go at a time when you wouldn’t normally go, though, and don’t be friendly to him. HE sounds pathetic, not you!

Hey there Caroline.

Let me point out that most guys ARE jerks, and this is a perfect example of one. From what I can tell, he knows exactly how to lure girls. I’m sorry you had to be one of them… But hey, this is the perfect chance for you to give him a little taste of his own medicine. That way, he’ll learn that instead of him having you wrapped around his finger, you actually have him wrapped around your middle one.

Remember to ALWAYS listen to what you’re friends feel about a guy. Especially if more than one agree.

So. This is what I strongly suggest you do. Don’t go back to the cafe next wednesday, or even the wednesday after that. On the third wednesday, go to the cafe alone like usual. (Make sure he’s there) Act nice, but instead of saying “hey” right away to him, ignore him. Eventually, meet eye contact with him one time. But dont smile, dont blush, just pretend he’s a nobody (like someone you pass by on the street, and think nothing of). Order a drink from a different worker (if it’s the guy. Dont smile or give him too much attention for his ego. Just be your normal self. No flirting.) Take a seat (make sure you brought a small book to pretend to read), and enjoy your drink. When the guy comes over to sit with you, smile and be nice. Talk to him, and flirt a little but not a lot). Make sure he asks you “So what are you doing here?” Or something along those lines. Then this is where the fun part begins! Tell him innocently that you’re hanging out with this really great guy. A DATE.

(See if you or your friends can arrange a guy to come in and pick you up from the cafe, right in front of this jerk. See if you can get a cute one!)

When he see’s this… he’ll feel like a complete idiot, and jerk. And most likely.., he’ll want you because he cant have you.

(Dont give into him. DO NOT. He’s not even worth the heartache. believe me..)

~ your friend, Lady

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