Should I tell my friend I saw her boyfriend cheating?

alright..my best friends boyfriend his name is cory and i really like him, in a little brother kinda way. well we get drunk every weekend and last weekend i wasnt drinking so i could drive them all home. when i was walking around i saw cory and this girl named lexie kissing on the pool table. well, he was drunk and lexi is a hoe. i’m really worried that if i tell lori about what i saw then she’ll get all crazy on me and try and kill herself agian..what should i do..i dont want her to kill herself.

Answer #1

Ok, i was in a very similar situation, except it was my ex bf that a ratted out to his gf. For 2 1/2 yrs i tried and tried to tell her hes being unfaithful to her, and he constantly lies to her. She ALWAYS ended up believing him, because we never liked each other. 2 weeks ago, we became friends, and she now believes me. He is really upset that we are friends, but thats his problem. She has been seeing someone (hes been using some girl again) and told her that i told him she was seeing “tyler”. She totally believed him. I couldnt believe what i was hearing. Like i would become friends with her only to stab her in the back?..is she kidding? I was so mad i texted him telling him that i dont appreciate him accusing me of something i didnt do. I told him what she does is NONE of his business, and that he needs to stop being the coward he is by lying all the time!

Some people would say that its NOT your place to tattle, but if my bf cheated on me, i would appreciate someone telling me. I think you owe it to your friend to tell her, but then again it doesnt sound like she is capable of accepting the truth. She sounds overly obsessive, which isnt good at all! So id have to say..ITS YOUR CALL!

Answer #2

Go to Cory and tell him what you saw and let him know if lori saw she would have been devistated! and for that reason have chosen not to tell her but expect him to be devoted only to her an there’s know excuse (even drinking) to cuz you are anyone to be unfaithful.. and make it know to him that you love lori and don’t want her hurt!

Answer #3

If your friend tries to kill herself, she needs help. You could try to talk her into talking to a therapist. A suicide attempt is just not a safe or appropriate response to any bad news.

I think Lori has a right to know what happened. Drinking is no excuse for his being unfaithful.

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