What should I do?

Okay my boyfriend and I been together for three years. Yessterday he asked me do I want to have sex and I told him no. He got mad and we had a big fuss. He haven’t called me and I called him like 10 times already. This can’t be the end of our relationship, we been together for too long. What should I do? I love him, but he need to wait on sex.

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Answer #1

If he can’t wait for you, then you wasted 3 years of your time for nothing.

If he loved you, he’d wait…stick to your guns and wait for someone worthy of you.

Answer #2

Your seriously better of without him. If he doesnt respect you then he doesn’t deserve you. Do you really want to spend the next few years with a boy like that?

3 years is a long time and he proberly feels like he’s “earned it” if you know what I mean but its still doesn’t change anything. Your not ready. Simple as that. A If you have sex just tp please him then your realtionship is destined for failure from then on. Do not let any boyfreind control you or force you in to anything. You are your own person.

Answer #3

if he truly loves you he would wait 4 u (I would w8 4 ever for my girlfriend) and if you dont want to have sex with him he has to respect that you are better off with out him and dont let him persur you in to and thing and if he loves you he wouldnt do any thing like that any way just wait and c if he will wait for you or if he wont if he wont then your way better off with out him I hope I help atleast a little…

Answer #4

If he is trying to force you to have sex with him then your better of with out him. If he isn’t prepared to wait for sex than he dont deserve you or having sex with you when you decide your ready. Leave him to sulk a little longer than try and call him. If he still dont reply than try and see him. And after that if still no answer from him just let him come to you. Never let him or anyone else pressurize you to do anything your not comfartable with. xx

Answer #5

well if he can’t wait for you or pressures you or what ever then he’s not worth your time

Answer #6

well when you get in contact with him have a nice calm discussion about why and why he wants to so badly

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