What Should I Do?!

So I’m 13 and I just got into a relationship a few weeks ago, but I’ve known my boyfriend my whole life, he’s been trying to get with me for a few years now and I finnaly gave in. The other day my friend was talking to him and asked him if he wanted to makeout. Only one problem. ( I dont know how to.) and he said he wanted to, and that he also wanted to have sex with me and he told me on the phone he wanted a blow job. I don’t know how to give a blow job either. What should I do?

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Answer #1

First, I think you should think about what you want in the sexual aspect of this relationship. Think about whether or not you’re ready to face the responsibilites of having an active sex life. Sex is much more than just a physical experience, and having an active sex life at a young age brings on a lot of responsibilites that you may not be prepared to face. What will you do if you become pregnant? No contraceptive is 100 percent effective. Are you prepared to be examined by a gynecologist after you have sex? Its highly recommended that women go after their first sexual experience. Some parts of an active sex life can seem scary for you right now, and so you might want to think more about whether or not you want to have sex so soon.

On the other hand, making out sounds like a fun and completely safe way to bring your relationship with your boyfriend closer together. The best part of making out is discovering what you like to do. When it comes to the kiss, all you have to do is relax, and let things happen. Soon enough, you’ll figure out what you like to do, and you’ll also find out how your boyfriend likes to be kissed. If you want to take it farther than kissing, there are other ways to give each other really great sexual pleasure without taking any risks that you may later regret. Feel free to funmail me if you want some more advice on what to do, I’ve been in your position before, so I know how you’re feeling. Hope this helps:-)

Answer #2

im 13 and I just gave my first bj. just dont bite him, keep a steady pace and when he pushes you over your limit and the only thing you can do to stop him is by..yes…biting him. he should be understanding. but you basically just suck it. and if your scared, just tell him youve never done it before and that you just want to experiment a bit.

hope I helpeddd <3 =]

Answer #3

you are only 13 there is no reason to rush into sex unless you already have but you really should know a little bit more about wat your doing before you do it! making out is simple you just start with simple pecks and then you put your toungue in his mouth and move it in circles or something. about the blow job i cant help you ive never given one but if you find out and you want to just know its not a crime to do it like alot of people make it out to be! have fun little one

Answer #4

This boy sounds like all he wants to do is do shit with you. AND YOURE ONLY 13!! whoa! go slow, if you dont feel comfortable even thinking about it don’t worry yourself about it. You are in control. A boy ain’t worth your time if he aint gonn wait for you. If he truly liked you he wouldnt give a damn what you guys did, only he would care about spending any time with you period. Don’t have sex, dont give him a blow job, and making out is completely fine. TAKE YOUR TIME!

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