What should a friendless person do?

I’ve never had a friend. I know it may be my fault, but I’m not exactly sure how or why- I’ve always smiled at people, offered them help with their problems, and joined clubs. I also always tried to keep quiet as far as complaining is concerned. But even so, I’m always left out of pretty much everything and am tired of being friendless. I’ve tried to confide in peers I’ve helped in the past and in family members, but they pretty much refuse to try to understand. So what should I do? Should I change everything about myself to make at least one semi-close relationship, or should I continue going on as a loner, wondering what’s wrong with myself?

Answer #1

I’m not afraid of boys, and I haven’t always been so silent. I was very energetic(but not getting in everyone’s way… More so just being happy and friendly) until everyone started either ignoring me or hating me, then I became as quiet as I am now…

Answer #2

how I made friends was hobbies. you cant just sit around being shy! try talking to people you think look nice. ask them a question and build a conversation

Answer #3

Actually, I’ve tried that numerous times, and it doesn’t work…

Answer #4

Talk. Talk. yes. IT will help you. Trust me, get over the shyness, or put your hair out of your face (always helps) :D

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