What's wrong with me?

I am 14 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. There has only been one guy who has ever liked me and he is pretty weird. My friends tell me that I can do so much better than him, but I don’t know if this is really true. All the guys I talk to are “just friends.” Yet it seems like I am the only person in my entire grade that has never had a boyfriend. How come nobody likes me that way? What is wrong with me?

Answer #1

I wonder if you are trying too hard. I know you don’t think 14 is too young but when you are my age it is so young to be worried about a boyfriend.

I know at 14 I worried about it too. I had red hair and freckles and I thought everyone thought I was ugly. I was teased a lot. But as I got older all that changed and my ugly duckling stage passed.

I wish I new for sure way you have this problem, you look like a nice looking guy and with a smile like yours you look like a fun person.

Join groups with like minded people. Join groups of like minded people but stop worry about having a boyfriend and the lucky guy will show up when you least expect it and he will.

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